Saturday, June 3, 2017

Loving Them To Hell

This year our City Council chose to table a LGBT ordinance which, at least temporarily, stopped the proposed law. Many refer to it as the NDO or the non discrimination ordinance. The NDO stated there could be no discrimination against anyone from the LGBT community in housing, employment, public accommodations, ect. This ordinance also included other groups which are already protected by law such as minorities and those with disabilities. Cleverly, veterans were in the mix as well because no one wants to discriminate against our troops. Make no mistake, the NDO was all about LGBT.

As you can imagine, that first city council meeting was packed beyond capacity. The leader of Fairness WV was one of the first to speak. He gave a big spill about equality and the positive economic effects of passing the NDO. He claimed Fortune 500 companies have these types of policies and would likely not come to our community if we did not. He also claimed it was a good way to attract the best and brightest workers to our area. It sounded like a rinse and repeat political speech that I thought he must  have spoke at the 10 other WV cities where the NDO passed. This issue had my interest for many reasons. I have likely researched this statewide as much as anyone. I was able to conclude a couple of things quickly. First, there seems to be no economic boost in the other 10 cities. No Fortune 500 company rushed to any of these 10 "inclusive" WV cities to set up headquarters. Secondly, I have found zero evidence that supports being part of the LGBT community alone makes someone smarter or harder working.

As the night continued we heard from supporters on both sides of the issue. The majority of citizens present were against it. Those in support of the NDO often used words like hate, tolerance, fairness, and equality. Many communicated that Christians were hypocrites if they didn't show love by supporting the NDO. My opinion is quite the opposite. I can and should love everyone. Their is a big difference between loving someone and supporting the things they do. I have a niece who is an addict. I love her with all my heart, but I hate she does drugs. The NDO defines gender identity as ones sense of self. This means someone can choose to be a boy today and a girl tomorrow. I do not see that as the same as a race, veteran, disability group, ect. My view is that if someone is born a male, they are a male. If I woke up today and said I identify as Lebron James, I would not actually be Lebron James. No one would owe me the life of Lebron James.

My Bible teaches me about truth and righteousness . If I love someone I will not agree with what they are doing if I believe it not be right according to Gods word. Right is always right. I'm saddened that many Christians and churches have supported the LGBT movement in the name of love and acceptance. You are wrong. You are not showing them truth. You are opening the gates of hell for them. If you love someone then actually love them by not camouflaging truth. The truth isn't always modern. It's not always comfortable. At the end of the day, support of the NDO is eternally damaging to many.

Wednesday, March 15, 2017

While We Were Sleeping

Our city recently defeated(at least temporarily)an LGBT ordinance that would have persecuted Christian businesses and families. On four days notice Christians mobilized, showed up, and made their voices heard. Parkersburg was the first large city in West Virginia to stop this legislation. It was an exciting evening with every seat in council chambers filled to include an overflow crowd seated on the chamber floor and lobby. This issue really seemed to be important to both sides. The evening was filled with emotional talk from organizations and concerned citizens. What days earlier was considered a done deal by the local newspaper was now reversed from much pressure on the mayor and council members.

As people were sharing there concerns with council I overheard someone ask how it came to this? How did this issue get so close to passing? I thought about those questions over and over. My family moved here over three years ago and instantly fell in love with the community. It seemed to be the most loving, conservative area we have ever lived in. We noticed there seemed to be an abundance of great churches, homeschoolers, and adoptive families. We thought this was our kind of place. The kind of place to raise a family and although we didn't know then, the kind of place to start a small family business. It definitely seemed to be a great place to serve God in this wonderful community.  So, with all that being said, how did this ordinance make it to city council for a first reading?

I believe it happened while we were sleeping. This legislation did not materialize in four days. The LGBT community have planned and worked for that night for over a year. They sought out likeminded candidates to run for election and worked to convince the others to join their side. They met regularly. They connected with Fairness West Virginia and began to take the same steps that made this successful in ten other WV cities. Step by step by step they worked together gaining steam and support a little at a time. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. That's exactly how it got to this. We are very blessed God chose to smile on us.

The big question is, what have believers been doing in the last 18 months to affect the political climate in Parkersburg? Apparently not nearly enough. There are several liberal community groups that watch every move that takes place. They hold Council accountable on everything. They know everything possible about each candidate long before Election Day. They are registered to vote and they actually vote. All along we wait until the last minute and react. We remain comfortable inside our church walls. When we go out in the world we mute our Godly principles. After all, we don't want to offend the world.

We need to get out of our comfort zone. We need to get proactive and play offense for once. Why not have our own political action group? We could find our own godly candidates and get them in office. We could also propose our own ordinances that honor God. This is done everywhere except the local city level. One thing we know after this ordinance is that local politics are extremely important. Maybe next time we won't get caught sleeping.

Sunday, April 10, 2016

Morality and Politics

I enjoy the political process. Any movie or documentary about the White House really interest me. As I get older I seem to want to learn more about all branches of government. I have come to one conclusion with the whole thing. The worst part about politics is the fact that it includes politicians. We all know there is no perfect politician. Many make promises they never keep. Many have very poor character. Some are certainly better than others. It is very likely none will line up 100% with everything we agree with. So what is a person to do? How should we vote? What issues deserve priority?

Many are disgusted with this political season. It is everywhere you look. We see it plastered on social media, on our TV, yard signs, bumper stickers, and billboards. A lot of people have had more than enough. I'm sure many would wish it away if possible. Sure, we have responsibilities as citizens. Everyone that is eligible should vote. So again, how should we vote?

I am a Christian. Politicians have been using the word "Christian" very loosely. Some believe Christian are the leftover category, meaning anyone not Catholic, Muslim, Jewish, ect. This is not completely true. A Christian is a person who has a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. This is someone who put their faith in the fact that Jesus died on the cross for theirs sins and asked Him to come into their life and save them from eternity in hell. Anyone who has not done exactly that are not  Christians. This does not make me smarter or better than anyone else. It makes me forgiven. It is not even something I deserve or something I could earn. This is what the Bible says and this is what I believe. Fortunately the bible says much more. It teaches me right from wrong. It is an instruction book which teaches me how I should live my life. It speaks a lot about righteousness and truth. I know that right is always right. Seems  like a simple phrase, but it is lost with many Christians today.

So to answer the question, which most already know deep in their heart, how should I vote? Well, we should prioritize who gets our support by who lines up most with Bible truth and principles. Again, there are no perfect politicians, especially in this election upcoming. I personally have been very disappointed with many Christians putting issues like the economy and immigration ahead of abortion and the family. It is shameful. I don't care if a politician promises to make America great again or if they pretend to be a reincarnation of Ronald Reagan, judge them by God's Word. This should be a Christians measuring stick. Whoever measures the closest deserves a believers vote. God should be involved in the entirety of our life. Even in the voting booth.I'm done with Christians wanting to put the Lord on a shelf and pull him down when it is convienent. Doing what's right is not always comfortable. Doing what's right is not always popular. Doing what's right is always right. Righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people.

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Be Who You Are

There is not a lot of sophistication in our family. I wouldn't know where to place a salad fork if my life depended on it. I do understand the importance of our testimony as Christians. We do need to worry about how we appear to others. Our actions and attitudes affect others. We are pushing people toward Christ or pulling them away. Although, there is a difference between maintaining a proper testimony and trying to appear as someone you are not.

Believers often get caught up in appearance only. It is almost like we want others to think we are super spiritual more than we actually would like to be super spiritual. We know all the right churchy talk and customs, but what are we like on the inside? God is concerned with the inside. The second car I owned was a 1970 VW Bug. I had it painted metallic teal and added new wheels and tires. From the outside it looked as if it just rolled of  the assembly line. The inside was a different story. The original upholstery was in shreds. Once anybody peeked inside they could see the poor condition of the car. The outside was not a clear representation of the inside. Sadly, this is the life of many Christians. We get caught up in outward image and many times  we are in shreds internally.

I think it is important to discuss the affect this has on others. After all, as much as we think we can fool others, who we really are eventually surfaces. It is a pride thing. We worry if others will like me if they know the real me. We should consider who we are positionally with God. We are a big worthless nobody outside of God. I will share a secret with you. So is the dad or mom who you think has the perfect life.  It is a sad misrepresentation to be a fake Christian. This has a horrible effect on a struggling Christian. It makes others feel very inadequate when they buy the false front. When a mom sees another mother go on and on about how perfect her children are, how flawless her marriage is, and how her house is never messy, she likely feels defeated. I don't think we need to air our dirty laundry all over social media, but it would be a big help if others knew they were not the only ones to struggle. As my daughter says, " it's not all rainbows and kittens".

It is not easy to humble ourselves. I am reclusive and it is difficult for me to share my struggles. My life is just a series of messes that my God cleans up daily. So is yours if you are a Christian. Let's just be who we are. That is hard enough on it's own.

Sunday, February 8, 2015

The Family

We had the opportunity to hear some great preaching on "the family" tonight. It reinforced some important principles for me. In my opinion, Christians do not focus specifically on God's perfect design for our family. Many of us would agree that our societies are moving further and further away from God. There is an increasing acceptance of sin. Things that were completely unacceptable, even when I was young,  are now deemed appropriate by "the world's" standards. It is more important now than ever that Christians learn, understand, and share absolute truth.

My first thought is to consider what has allowed our great nation to separate so far from God's way. Obviously, Satan desires our communities to drift from The Lord, but what have we done(or failed to do) that allowed this downward spiral in America. It starts in our families. We can blame our sometimes luke-warm churches, but it really starts with the family. After all, it is not our Pastor's responsibility to raise our children in the nurture and admonition of The Lord. He may reinforce, but it starts and finishes in the home. To narrow down even more, it starts with the fathers. It is very unlikely for a home with an absent or backslid father to produce children who end up in the center of God's will. It is difficult enough to live right when both parents work to please God, but subtract the leader who is Biblically charged to lead, and you have a recipe for disaster. Look no further than the failing family. I think there are many reasons fathers fail. Most are rooted in pride and selfishness. The modern dad has to have his time, his hobbies, his career, ect. I have heard someone joke that a man that is a very good golfer is likely lacking in other areas of his life. There is probably much truth in this. I have worked with guys who neglect their family in a heartbeat to work any extra hours or to advance in the workplace. I know others who retired and within a few months they are begging to return to work. As dads, we can sometime try to do right with the wrong motivation. We naturally want to be providers. It is when we stray from God's perfect blueprint that we fail. Alot of fathers sit back and allow the wife to fill their role. We cannot expect God's blessing when we stray from His plan. God's way is the best way.

Secondly, I wonder why we don't identify this as the main problem. We try to fix this root issue in reverse. There are ladies conferences, youth groups, and children's programs. Our wives know how to fellowship with each other. They communicate with one another and build each other up. Our kids go   to a distraction free camp and make countless decisions in obedience to God's will. Only to come home and sadly "get over it" due to a lack of reinforcement in the home.  We focus very little on the fathers. God is clearly capable of anything. He can perform a miracle within any situation and sometimes our homes are already broken. We can't change what has already taken place. We have to bloom where we are right now. For the homes where a father is still present, an awesome responsibility awaits.

Our world is a mess because our families are a mess. Our families are a mess because our fathers are a mess. I can't imagine our country will turn back to God until the designed family leaders humble themselves and fill their prescribed role. We need more preaching on the family. We need Godly men to spend time together for edification and encouragement. Young Christian fathers need to be discipled. The family is important to God and He will honor our commitment to it.

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Prayer And Praise

The theme for our church this year has an emphasis on prayer and praise. We hope to echo this in our home in 2015 also. Two simple words that Christians undoubtedly take for granted. When you consider the direct access we have to The Lord, along with the credit He deserves for all our blessings, you would think it would impact our lives more. You would think it would affectation our attitude and actions.

I am amazed when I really think about the ability to pray directly to the one who spoke and created the world I see everyday. The one who allows the miracle of life to happen has time for me and cares for me as if I am the only person on earth. Regardless of life's struggles, we have the greatest friend in our corner. Not only that, but He desires to hear from us. That alone has always been too much for me to wrap my mind around. God knows what I am thinking even before I know, yet He is longing to hear from me. With such a friend, we should want more and more communication.

I think of praise as giving credit where it is due. I could write for a long time describing God's blessings in my life. He certainly deserves this praise. Our family has had needs met that make no earthly sense. We've seen money for a bill show up at the eleventh hour.  This past year we seen God take our business from a dream to a true reality. He has opened doors in the first eight months that we expected to take years. Sometimes God acts in such a blatant way that is undeniable. However, He deserves credit for it all, big and small. We should be grateful for another day of life. We should praise Him for basic needs we take for granted like food, shelter, freedom, and family. My wife and I sometimes talk about the grace of God in our lives. We were both on a path to destruction until God stepped in. He transformed our house into a Christian home. He made something beautiful out of our train wreck. Not because we are anything special, but He truly is.

Pray and praise should be evident in our lives daily. We have access to the creator who cares about every boring detail of our life. We have the Holy Spirit inside us. He loves us and wants what is best for us. How can we fail? Our Lord deserves our praise for everything from salvation to answering the smallest prayer. It is interesting that Christians never get the agony of what we deserve and God rarely get the credit for His mercy shown to us.

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Blood Is Thicker Than Water?

I have heard it said that blood is thicker than water. I am not sure I agree with the intended meaning. While biological family is great, it is not a requirement to a rich family life. Our family is proof. We're basically a big group of strays who need each other. We all benefit from the support and love of each other and would struggle on our own.

Our world has lost sight on the importance of the family. God intends closeness in our homes. We are to build each other up. Our homes should be a safe-haven from the trials of this wicked world. It should be a place to learn and develop spiritually. The hedge of protection should be evident. Unfortunately this is not most homes today.  How will people ever think outside of their own blood-line if they have little concern for what God has already blessed them with?  In my opinion, it can generally be traced back to an absent or troubled father.

I believe God wants us to think outside of our biological family. What did Jesus typically do when entering a community? He sought out the least. He was not concerned with religious leaders, he was concerned with serving those with a need. Well, our communities are full of children who need us. Children of drug addicts, alcoholics, and neglectful parents whose pride comes first. These children have needs, both human and spiritual.

I don't think everyone should necessarily be foster/adoptive parents, although many are more than capable. There are many ways God's people can serve these kids. It just take an attitude of willingness. You could bring them to church and spend time with them. It just takes less focus on ourselves and more for others.

I wish to teach my kids to care for others. I want to teach by example. Our family is not perfect. We fail God daily, but I want my children to learn these principles. Life is not about who shares your DNA. It is about who needs you and how you can serve them. All Christians have been adopted in the family of God. The only blood that concerns our family is the shed blood of Jesus Christ.